H.O.E.

Code of Conduct

At HOEWeekend, we’re all about freedom, fun, and fierce connection—but only when it’s safe, consensual, and respectful. By attending, you agree to uphold these community standards to help us build a safe, welcoming space for all. Our vibe? Sexy, inclusive, and drama-free. Let’s keep it that way.

💬 Consent is everything! All interactions—verbal or physical—CONSENT must be freely, clearly, and enthusiastically given.

  • Consent can be withdrawn at any time.
  • “No” means no—there’s no room for ambiguity.
  • If you’re unsure, ask.
  • Be mindful of non-verbal cues. If someone seems uncomfortable, disengage immediately.

Other key rules:

  • Don’t touch anyone without explicit permission.
  • Harassment, intimidation, or aggression will not be tolerated—period.

🔐 Privacy

Respect the privacy of others.

  • Do not share personal stories, photos, or experiences from HOEWeekend or CCBC without explicit consent.
  • What happens here stays here!

🛡️ Safe Practices

We support your right to play your way—safely and smartly.

  • Practice informed safer sex. Use condoms, dental dams, or consider PrEP and DoxyPEP. Talk with your healthcare provider—and your partners.
  • No judgment—just informed choices.
  • Know your limits. Be responsible with alcohol or substances. If you or someone else appears unsafe, tell a staff member or volunteer right away.

🌈 General Conduct

  • Respect resort staff, rules, and boundaries.
  • Keep noise and behavior appropriate to the space.
  • No discrimination of any kind will be tolerated. This is a home for all identities.
  • Aggressive behavior = automatic intervention.
  • Leave play areas as clean as you found them. If it’s messy, clean it—or tell a staff member.

🚫 Enforcement

Any violation of these guidelines may result in:

  • A warning
  • Suspension from events
  • Or removal from the Resort

Staff decisions are final.
CCBC and HOEWeekend reserve the right to refuse entry or service to anyone.


❓ Need Help?

If you have questions, feel unsafe, or need to report something, find a staff member or volunteer. We’re here to help—and we’ve got your back.